Emotional Healing Blog

Just Wait

April 19, 2007 by Shanti Mai

Here in the Northwest, people say, “If you don’t like the weather, just wait 15 minutes. It’ll change.” The same is true for stormy and cloudy times in our lives. It’ll change.

The trouble is, we tend to interfere with its natural resolution, with its natural tendency to return to peace, to greater light. We tend to make predictions, and then to act as if they are already true. This of course MAKES our predictions true sooner or later. So instead of a storm and its resulting resolution in peace, we create a continuance of the turmoil. We make the storm go on and on, inside of us. This is what often causes that same person to experience illness, or have a terrible accident shortly afterwards.

I had a friend years ago who, after being rear-ended in a car accident, though it occurred after a 23-year perfect driving record, was in two other accidents that same year! She’d started worrying about it happening, started envisioning it.

Bad weather? Just wait. Bad break? Just wait. Resolution will come - and it may be sooner than you’ll let it come!

Light + Shadows

April 9, 2007 by Shanti Mai

An increase in Light means that some of the shadows are going to be moving, some shadows are going to be deepening, and some are going to disappear, leaving us able to see now what was hidden, before, in the dark.

As our awareness increases, collectively, denial deepens, while some people wake up and clearly “see the light”. We’re all also faced with change (movement), with having to face that which was previously unseen. Can you imagine if you had a very old house, abandoned for many years, how many nasty surprises you might encounter when you unlocked the door and turned the power, the LIGHT, back on? Perhaps a rotting dead animal, most likely roaches, rats and their nests, piles of dust and large and ancient cobwebs. Does that mean it’s not a constructive thing to clean it all up? Of course not. That’s the only way to salvage the use of the structure, to regain the potential that was put on hold.

All of this makes for dramatic times and is exactly where we are right now. We’re seeing rats (and smelling them), and there are certainly carcases to be found, things that have been cloaked in darkness, in secrecy. So don’t forget that it was due to an increase in light, which is a good thing.

Anti-Depression

April 5, 2007 by Shanti Mai

My April 2nd entry about a “handy” anti-depression tip (refer to that entry, and you’ll see why I’m using quotation marks), made it into another blog, but it’s just a ROBOT doing their entries, grabbing everything with their keywords in it.

The excerpt started mid-sentence, and didn’t even make sense any more.  Oh well, it was exciting, nonetheless!

Changing Friday’s Forecast

April 5, 2007 by Shanti Mai

I love this man and his work. My apologies for the way it shows up here on my blog!

A timely introduction, for those of you unfamiliar with Steve Bhaerman and his alter ego, Swami Beyondananda:

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Preemptive Peace

A Living “Prayer” for Mutually Assured Survival
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by Steve Bhaerman


A young psychiatrist was just beginning his residency at a mental hospital. On his first day in a particular ward, he noticed an inmate silently standing at attention at the door, holding a broom on his shoulder like a rifle. After several days of watching this man, the psychiatrist walked over and asked, “Excuse me, but what are you doing?”
“I’m keeping the elephants away,” the inmate replied.“But there are no elephants around here,” said the psychiatrist.The inmate smiled. “See? It’s working!”As physicists are discovering, in this entangled universe of interrelated thoughts, it’s not always easy to determine “cause and effect.” So as we consider a worldwide prayer for peace in the Middle East — specifically a preemptive peace strike to forestall a preemptive war strike on Iran — it’s interesting that Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinanejad has already initiated a preemptive peace move of his own. Say what you will about his motives, a de-escalation of tensions is a step in the right direction for a change.Did positive prayers and thoughts make any difference or are we just keeping the elephants away? Who knows?

But I did get to experience first hand a very curious event about eight or nine years ago. It was at a time when Bill Clinton was in the midst of his impeachment crisis. With his back up against the wall, there was only one thing he could do — order air strikes against Iraq. I was at a conference in Florida, and one of the speakers was Gregg Braden, a scientist by training who has done a lot of research on meditation and prayer. Long before there was any news of air strikes being launched, Gregg and a number of other presenters had planned a worldwide meditation for peace with this particular conference as the focalizing event.

He instructed the group in a kind of prayer he called The Lost Mode of Prayer that involved using the “juice” of emotion to feel and see the prayer already answered. As I closed my eyes, I imagined a true “arms pact” between opposing sides. I saw a stage, and a line of individuals coming from either side to meet in the middle. I imagined they were Israelis and Palestinians, but they could have been Irish Catholics and Irish Protestants, Serbs and Croats, Greeks and Turks, or even Democrats and Republicans. In military fashion they strode to the middle, and when members of “opposing” groups met, there was the cry of “Present arms!”

At which point, both individuals would open their arms — and hug. And thus, I watched this procession continue until the end of the meditation. Later in the day, we heard the news that for some inexplicable reason, the planes turned around. Did our prayer have anything to do with it? And, can our intentions actually impact outcomes continents away?

Says Gregg Braden: “The authors of the Dead Sea Scrolls — the ancient Essenes — were very clear that the world around us mirrors the feelings, emotions, and perceptions we hold inside our bodies. Emotion is the power source, but it is scattered until thought gives it direction. Feeling is the power of emotion merged with the guidance of human thought. It is this language of feeling that Creation responds to. In this feeling state we have the ability to touch Creation and the world around us through prayer. As it says in the Essene manuscripts, ‘when these three become one then you say to the mountain, move, and the mountain moves.’”

Did the shared intention cause the mountain to move, or are we simply making a mountain out of a mole hill? And if the mountain did move, then why did the bombing get relaunched on another day? Says Gregg, “What happened was that the people stopped their prayers. Most people view prayer as something we ‘do’ on occasion when we think we need God’s help. We set a moment aside, sit down and say a prayer asking for circumstances or events to change. Then we stop our prayer, get up, and go about our business. In The Lost Mode of Prayer, the prayer — our heart’s desire — becomes a consciousness embodied, rather than just an action performed on occasion. The author Neville terms it ‘living in the wish fulfilled.’ We hold the feeling of our heart’s desire day in and day out, rather than simply praying for a moment when we’d like to see a change and then leaving the state of prayer to go on with our daily lives. As we are surrounded and enveloped by the feeling of our wish fulfilled, we are actually living in a state of compassion, gratitude, and appreciation.”

In other words, when we focus a strong positive feeling with the laser of intention — and when we embody this feeling over time — we may actually be able to impact the field of possibilities. The science of how this is being done can be found in books such as The Field by Lynn McTaggart, Entangled Minds by Dean Radin, and Gregg Braden’s latest book, The Divine Matrix. For now, let’s consider how as many of us as possible can hold the field for “mutually assured survival” in the Middle East, and how we can reinforce an ongoing field of peaceful dreams to supersede the field of nightmares we seem to have going now.

There have been news reports indicating possible air strikes on Iran beginning on Good Friday. Again, is this true? Not true? We don’t know. In any case, if we want to broadcast our intention that Good Friday not become Bad Friday, that leaves us with Holy Thursday … tomorrow, April 5th. We are asking you and anyone else you forward this to to make tomorrow the day we begin to hold our intention of preemptive peace and mutually assured survival.

So … in keeping with Gregg’s notion of prayer, what is your vivid and joyous vision of peace? What does it look like? Sound like? Feel like? Does it have to do with opposing sides hugging? Planting olive trees together instead of land mines? Celebrating that a ruling majority in each land has adopted the “we’re all in it together” world view? Whatever this scenario is, feel it. Hold it for the entire day, whenever you think about it. Enroll others in doing the same. As Swami is fond of saying, “An enrolling stone gathers no remorse.”

Another thing Swami has said is, “Life is like photography. We use the negative to develop.” Out of the apparent negativity of the stories circulating that a bombing attack in Iran was imminent, a great “positive” opportunity has emerged. Thanks to a dedicated webmaster in New York, BriAnna Olson and an associate in Northern California, Suzanne Keehn, we are creating a website to help hold this ongoing field of peace. We call it preemptivepeace.org and it will up and running shortly. We will keep you apprised. We’re in the process of growing, so when you go to our website, please add your name/email to keep in touch.

So, as one might ask during Passover week, “Why is this site different from all other sites?” Seriously, there are lots of peace organizations and peace sites, so how and why is this one different? For one thing, we are creating a context that relates what we call “peace” to all of the factors that prevent peace or make it possible — spiritual, emotional, political, spiritual, environmental. We face directly the powerful and persistent beliefs that make us secretly fear that peace isn’t possible, we affirm practicing the “operating system” offered to us by all religions via the Golden Rule and we offer a portal to the projects and practices that are most likely to bring peace.

We are excited about being an ongoing “supportal” to all things that affirm our world view of “we’re all in this together,” and give us tools to, as Swami says, “Regrow the Garden from the grassroots up, and have a heaven of a time doing it.”

As Gregg Braden would remind us, prayer isn’t something we “do” but something that we “be.” Let the being of preemptive peace begin.


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    A Handy Anti-Depression Tip

    April 2, 2007 by Shanti Mai

    Years ago, when in the midst of a double-bind situation, I effectively stopped much of my despair and worry about the outcome (in which there would be “casualties”, whichever way it went). I had an inspiration to wear nail polish whose color was called “Blood”, so dark it sometimes looked black.

    As I move my arms and hands around when I talk, I knew it would stop my thinking when I saw my pale skin in dramatic contrast with those nails. And it worked, beautifully: I was constantly being startled by the appearance of my hands - - startled into the Present Moment, which, though the situation was still filled with land mines, allowed me the grace to get through it. It helped me to stop projecting into what the different terrible outcomes could be, and to stay with what was right in front of me.

    And later, though the element of surprise was eventually gone, seeing my dark-nailed hands became a happy reminder of how I had given myself a hand up. (Sorry - these puns!)

    Obviously, some lifestyles don’t allow this kind of self-therapy: imagine an Armani-suited lawyer on whose shoulders a sensitive and serious verdict lies. He approaches the bench, his hands each with five dark, dried-blood-colored nails… Why, they might dismiss his argument off hand!

    I’ll post anti-depression tips for him - - and others for whom this particular tip doesn’t apply, in another post.